Fixing adhd is all about fixing confidence thought.. Extending thought
I hope that this gets to a few people and they experience what myself and three other dads experienced when our boys(sorry girls) all boys came out of ADHD simply cause we knew what the problem was and how to fix it.It will seem really simple but it normal to never get to what the problem ever was because we dont know about mental illness and how it works. And mental health don’t know about it either, so the smallest little problem never ends and its sad for me when the information is now out there but Psychiatry wont accept any input other than from there own community.
I should make it absolutley clear first that the boys were only 4,5,5 and six and it will be easier the younger they are. But its the same with all mental illness and it occurs when there is a problem in the mind that effect a there emotion that need to be developing as thats what we do. You have to remember also so that young kids are a very weak still emotionally, they drop there car or a bit tired and it could cause a melt down. In my case around the age of 3.5 i noticed my boy losing a bit of confidence and more over i noticed he wasnt thinking much. He was going in the direction where he didn’t think to play with his toys, he didnt speak until someone else did and it was like a reaction without thought he would just disagree and then he would have to stop as there were no words he could think of.. And gradually this got worse and he was even mimicking his little brother lying on the floor as a 3 month old as the best thing, he could come up with, it got worse quick and i remember calling it zero confidence cause at the time i hadnt realized he brain stopped working. Then gradually his friends drop of real quick because he would interupted them to do what he wanted and he had nothing he could tell them after he interupted them,And things in the play ground sting hard when there that old.. i was catching on by now and i couldnt remember the last time he even said anything relevant,. They not thinking so there standing around trying to get an idea even to move from just standing in a spot and its most all about not being able to think which stemmed from losing attention span. i was beside my self and i didnt even think what to do i was just sad for the boy. He was like happy to even have you say something which at least it triggered him to move and blurt out something.. Oh yeah i missed this important bit, as he losing attention and his thinking falling short he doing the wrong thing more often and you telling him no all the time and he doesnt understand that well why its no and it like stopping his thoughts even more. So its all things like that and i could repeat em over again a few times but one day he come home and had been bitten like ten days in a row, no mark or anything but i said to him, dont you care that he bite you and i remember it like it happen 2 seconds ago and it was the first time he had used his mind for so long and he said he is my only friend, so he had lost em all and his last one kept biting him cause my boy would interupt him the minute he tried to do something usually like being a bit quiet and having time to himself. So i rang a couple of dads and they were like NO, no problem here, so i rang the kindy and we were chatting and i got to the point and a meeting arranged and i said i only want the answer to this question only as they were not giving me anything and trying to get the biter out of the kindy on psych grounds, but i wanted to know why my boy was the only one being bitten, and i even knew the answer by now as i seen how he interupted ever time at the wrong time and i knew the little boy was a good boy.. But im at the stage of going out of my mind cause my boy is as good as fucked, the kindy dont even notice and couldnt answer my question why only my boy getting bitten and was talking about the bitter and i was going how can you not see he is fucked… And im a good thinker and just lucky i come to some fucking idea and i said i dont give a fuck how long it takes i will fix this and everything else can fuck off until its done, i was like trying to think what to do and i come up with i aint saying no i ain”t walking away we hang till he had enough and we just go and do what comes up’. But it was all confidence and attension to him and he knew i had wronged even but he was ready to give me another chance and at first i was helping him think a bit and always just talking and in no time at all after hours and hours he started saying some really cool thing again, and i said to a few people only at the five hour mark you here the special thing, It really was like he was there doing his best and there was no thought and it the parent who got to keep that ticking over ever know and then cause they can loose confidence still in ther ability even to switch on and think.. Like there got to be encouraged to think and to think a certain way so they get an answer, and also that have to learn a few things all together at that age so they can think and sometime they might of missed something so there trying to think like all the other kids and they havent got all the learning, I didnt stop there as i was enjoying it now hanging out and he went right back to the very top and that bit of work made life easy and was loving to think and çonfidence, and i just worked it all out from emotions what to do.. Even the disorder though tells you what the problem is when you understand it, but instead of going into even lower confidence and less thought and that and getting more no and bored and everything they got that adhd that protects there emotion cause the disorder acts like that with blasting out words and not long attension span and heaps of erradict behaviour cause that still think fuck all and just doing the easiest stupid thin and you trying to make him listen or what ever and he always fucking up and not getting to the point were he here enough of what you say and the thinks and the acts its short spirt an quick thought and then change all the time. , But people never get the problem amd i swear if you were even aware of this emotions thing you be super parent with half the work. If it hasnt been two many years it work for sure and 100%fixed like they never had it… Same as the other three blokes, they were like yeah of course.. but i ended up right into the mental health shit and worked every thing out why i am like i am and all that and just stuff like i was switch off for thirteen years, my whole school life for some subjects and was because i missed a bit or wasnt interested and thirteen years so there with no thought like maybe should listen or what ever. and no one noiticed and im bottom in these few subject with the complete doe does and matha i switch and confident and it was all good.. With adhd, like you might be saying something or argueing or fuck look at you phone or just not be there for you chi;ld and that all they see, there lifeline turning there back on em and a he just cant work it out and mind isnt like grown ups that always thinking, nothing to think about it stoppes and a person just needed to be help.. You see it all the time with kids for years, like they be singing and there got no word that can rhyme or they can only focus on the tv, or cant put the shoes on and hoping you do it and things are always slacking off, even how they process dropping something when there young, you need to say its ok and pick em up and show to stand and 2 second later its all good, buts when you aware, its just to easy and it all stick out. And once you know what to look for you get really good very quick and knowing anything before it comes up.. Its with everyone, its all easy after you been told’.. But this pisses me off a bit, so i did a real detailed thing even all the dtuff me and him and how good it was to and the best thing i ever expirienced and made sure like that if someone did it then it would work for sure and i give it to a couple of blokes and they were like you found the cure or the cause and i would of been pumped and they introduced to a couple of research psych places and they wouldn;t even take it from there own.. They wouldn;t look and they not even looking at the problem and i know wm all ‘.. And thousand of places are all not even looking at mental health and making all sorts of false cliams, but they wont even tell a parent something that will work and it take 5 minutes, and if there young its so easy even and im like you fuckers, kids everyone cause they wont even research the right area, and all there proof they ever had is this emotions bull shit and the whole world gone mad an will go mad for sure, we are all gonners and mental health has actually never had a break through mother fuckers