WHAT ARE THE ARGUMENTS FOR ADHD BEING A THOUGHT DISORDER

1)  THE NAME

ATTENTION DEFICIT ——-WHAT HAPPEN WHEN A CHILD LOSES ATTENTION—THERE THOUGHT STOPS

2) THE AGE YOU CAN GET IT

 

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HERE IS THE BIG PROBLEM—YOU

 

People dont know what ADHD is ? DO YOU? Its a disorder that means your life is over. Right on your 4th birthday, your not even got to school age and sure there is survival for you.. But that is the bad part, the good part is something you not aware of.. The good part is whats reported.. Because if people knew the bad part, there is a big problem.

Whats this big problem”??? THE BIG PROBLEM IS YOU… YOU are the problem… You are the problem until you know the problem.. We are all born equal and this PROBLEM  is you.. ..

There are parents of these little kids supporting each other, trying to keep spirits up that need your support.

Happy family


In todays edition of psych wars its saturday 4 may 2019 and as usual perfect, i felt good, the boys were on point and the ex was firing on all cylinders. Happy family is what came to mind when titling the blog, and that feels great, all i ever wanted in life… but lets dive into it, cause its a book i need for today, but it’s 10.22pm and i want it done in 4 hours, sunrise at the latest..

I got down the boys at 9am, Naht 6.5yrs & Jaek 3yrs 9m were sitting in there room building with blocks something that was looking cool, and they were really into it, but had just got to the “”i got no more blocks”” and looking at how to continue. I sat down to say hello, and Jaek said, “”what do you do that””, I had cut off the scruffy beard It beard cause the young bird had popped in at  in the morning.. Sugar daddy .com.. They told me before that i dont look like a daddy when i cut it, “”what do you think, 10 yrs younger don’t i”, Naht,”””you don’t look like my daddy””, i said””sorry mate, i couldn’t find the trimmer and i cut it off, gimme 2 weeks and it be back, i know you like the beard and i only want to be a daddy……     48 hr prob since last sleep, and the ex offered up coffee and breakfast and thats exactly what i needed.. I listened to her while eating, and got the run down of what what, that i had no idea of, and we were off to soccer at 10am.

On the way Naht, said it my birthday in two days, and then asked his mum in the most respectful planned way if he could miss after school german class , just one time so daddy can come over on monday… She said  no and began to explain and Naht jumped back in strong, and i went over both and said, you asked that as good as you could boy, and i pick you up from school, good stuff boy, Ex tried to go for next day, Naht wanted birthday day and 1/4 winge begging argued tone. I amped it up “”Naht, i pick you up ok, i will talk to mummy and it will happen so leave it… She went to plead her point, but i told her to wait as well..

Was the first time i seen him play soccer, as sunday is my day, and he went off with friends and i took a stroll with Jaek.. He is a tiny near 4yr old, bit of chatting, and exploring and chassings, then some bit rougher stuff and he would run into me like a tackle.. Kids love this and its top shelf in the effects it has. Back when me and Naht were doing our thing i had to limit it to once a day, he would go that hard and long with it. But its hits there confidence, they know where there at, it’s physical bonding to the extreme, trust and every emotion get pumped up.. They know that they can go hard at you and you not walk away.. So a good 15 mins he took these big run off and slammed into me and for sure were harder that last week…Your child will for 100% be no more, even less aggresive when you get a bit rough with him like this…. Would of looked funny for everyone 50 away this kids lauching into his dad. We cruised back and already jaek is starting to beam on his own with me. He dont get his share as Naht, is non stop talker. And Jaek not confident yet, but the smallest rize in confidents and he escalates it with his own talk and near cant control himself he so happy when he allowed to use his mind with out interuption,… There were like ten dogs with people on side of the field and we did  big round of doggy funny stuff and that’s big time effect in mind for a child..

We go over to the game where Naht is and there playing a real easy team, he pops in 3 already and all jonny on the spot, and back middle where he just blabbing away in esxtacy while playing so i through in a couple of funnies basically saying play..  Jaek was hanging with me, and im not sure, it seemed so that he went over to his mun and hung on her leg. He just gave this slight look to say, look, i doing something you don’t like. I wanted a drink so i give him a nudge to show it not on and we both went to the shop… He was near panic attack a few weeks back, and the ex keeps fucking things up when i get em going good… It very simple how this seperation anxiety works, but you have a kids a bit this way, your stepping into a like time of mental illness if you don’t sort it.. Its a comfort thing, but more it turns to a dependence thing, which is what the growing up is supposed to move away from this dependance and will have the effect of hare core emotional abuse,, I think its abuse if you dont help a child get over the parent as a dependant.. Its another blog in its self…  but we got back and he did it again, so she trys to encourage if any thing and there definelty a bit of “”what are you going to do now……””. So i give him a few spray the drink we bought, and then again to get him off leg, we end up playing a bit and head into the bush were there that has a awesome bike track weaving in out of the trees..

The biggest problem is at around jaek age a child begins to develope, a longer thought process. Its when you can  get adhd.. But that’s not the concern and i know what to do if somehow he got it, which is not really possible when your aware how sndh, an mind state works.. But a child hang on the leg of mum, will do this as a way of dealing with there problems. And they don’t develop ways to deal with adversity and also a dependant thought process and it just snow balls into every sort of anxiety, depression and into panic attacks and a fucked life…Its a problem and just the way it is with my ex. She just sees some kid as dependant  on her and down were all the rest could be.. It s not the time to make  scratch and blame, what ever you do is basically  teaching them that .. and then onto a thought process that is  influenced with some that will just have the poor thought and cyclical style..

So i take him cruising on this bike track for a bit of therapy.. The few little secrets of good therapy, outdoors exploring and  and get the talking flowing. And i mean 3 yr old talk.. And i mean therapy that hits the spot and makes a dint. He is in not a bad state, but its not quite there where i feel total safety from danger zone of mental illness. Jaek i would say is average confidence, a fair bit under with his dependancy issue, poor in dealing with stuff, the above ave in play and self-esteem, He got total trust in me .. So for what he needs, i can use the trust to get him thinking about issue that effect him, dependancy and the flow on.. He gets that as a norm anyway, but i want him to be aware of it in mindstate, important to me and when the trust is there, the result will be there even for a 3 yr old with out stepping into issue of putting responsibility back on the child for any of it being his fault.. You just talk and there is no plan, you just seem to always get lots of chances to effect mindset.

We walked and talked, he mentioned a couple of times being lost, we jumped of the track to let others lost, trees fallen were dinosaurs, playing with cars and remote control cars on the track and bike riding, you talk about when you were a kid and just stuff to give him thought and continued conversation, and when you can you drop into areas where he knows like cartoon and you act all suprised that he knows more that you, and my dad used to call me the last of the great do do birds, was a big bird, and do do sounds a bit dumb, but you dont call you kid dumb, But thinking like that is do do and there no more birds like that but there is if you just said that, and goes futher, but jaek was into it, a bloke seen a snake a good way down and is just cruising like we do as a rule, and we were nearly back to the feild and there was one like bike jump, and being a kid, he probably getting tired legs or could of been anything, Maybe the steep jump was a bit close to being to hard.

So he yelled out he needed help, getting down th jump, I said come on have a go you can do that, then he started the cry and screaming he cant, and i thought for a breif second, maybe, but no , walked about 50 steps and i knew we couldn’t see each other, and i wouldn’t go far before i turn back, but he got down, no problem and was running after me crying, so his emotions are up… and you got a chance to help him emotionally with things that arent strong due to his life presented to hi by parents.. What you need to say will always be in relation to how emotions work and to the mindstate  of the person, and that of a nearly 4 yr old, still even with short thought process so its got to be clear, matter to him. Then you hit that spot, you re hit it over and over where every word is straight forward. Its simple and only way, and you show it like you mean it.. You ask simple questions that he agree with… I see him running i turn around and show im upset with him thinking i walked off on him, peoples minds throw up insecurities all the time… I get into him,, “”YOU THINK I WOULD WALK OFF ON YOU””, “”DO YOU””, then i grab him and look at him “”I will never walk off on you””, “”ÿou are my boy””, “”no matter what, a car, a bus, a big train i will be right there every time.. “”when did anything happen to you””, tell me one time i wasn’t right there in the right spot ..     Jaek says””i couldn’t get down”””, and that’s absolutely perfect, cause now its double down time,, What are you talking about”””Thats an easy one for you””, “”That smaller than hexly bike jump, climbing over the sofa”” Your 3 nearly 4, your not 2 or 1 or a little cry baby”” You My BOY””‘MY BEST BOY”” and he alright now so we walking again, but now just needs a bit of time to feel what has been said””you and naht are my boy”” and “”we all together”’and mummy”” Ï know your the smallest””, but i ever say your small””, your a big boy,,, Now he starts talking, cause he confidents comes up with feeling secure and the pump up.. When naht give you them little ones you dont like, who is there, every time, i see em””, and do i get angry with naht””do i”” he say yes”” and there only little things that dont even hurt”” änd you dont cry much even”” he says i not cry at kindy anymore””””ÿou know why”” he says””cause im a big boy”” you will probably be bigger than me one day mate”” you dont cry at kindy cause mum not there””””is she””at kindy you a bigboy”””i think you a bigboy””but mummy see you crying all the time and she forgets you a big boy”” “”she says you little”””and “”always on your side””and i get upset, because mummy not letting you be a bigboy”” anything jaek, i dont care if it just a little one from naht, dont care if mummy get upset when daddy tell her to leave you””but every time and for no one else do i get mad, only you, you know, i know you dont like those little one, i know cause im your daddy .. I know when you cry is real sometime i even give you a hug when you cry for nothing, it not because you cry for nothing, it because i show you i never walk away.. You dont cry mich with me, or at kindy, but you crying to much with mum, you hold her leg, you hold her hand, you look like you sad, you finger in your mouth when she around, and it make daddy very upset… Everyone loves you mate and you see me walking away,, i not a dodo im your daddy, naht just trying to make you tough to, but that my job, i dont need any help, you try and you try and you try to and that is good but i dont give up when you cry for nothing when mum there, i get more and more close to you to stop this… thats not walking away.. it not your fault, but you getting strong now, you were running into me and i could feel it today, you not crying at kindy, this time you have to cry much less with mum… i dont like it, nathan doesnt like it mum doesnt like it, and it makes you sad to.. In our family we dont like that, we like it when you tuff and good boy. You a good boy jaek.. sometimes you need your mummy and she there for those times, not for everyday.. Soon there no nappy, soon we go to kindy with no hazy, soon you go to bed by yourself and when u were 1 you were the toughest boy i ever seen, you never needed help, so i know you can do it, you know you can do it, the dodo bird and bum bums the hot lips and transformes know you can do it  and lots of things to do but you got to be ready… its not mummy time, it jaek time… we dont hop, we dont bop we dont go popcoptopwe dont stop till we get to the top .. It was way over in reality, but you hit an emotion and then re hit and then this one m anf that one and it therapy ten fold when you know what your targeting.

I grabbed naht and the it just the boys, it not an issue any more him getting nervous and crying to much.. He beams, it even to high, she had wanted us to go to some bees thing and its an idea, but is irrelavent, Poor mum, plans and plans and then i come along with the no plan is the plan, we are not out of the car park and its not even a hot day and naht says can we have a slushy.. When you know what your doing sitting on the sofa becomes an adventure cause kids just rise every time when you don’t hold em back.. The more you know, the more you put the easy more enjoyable and better they are. Its not even close either. Every time the parent is in the wrong and then you go from there is the rule…

Lets just say the reply started, did you just call me dodo, mummys not hear and daddy a dodoe and its slushy time,, and the converation and laughs and adjustment, thinking and revert back to this, and we just in our world, we grabbed kfc for first time, naht talk in the drive though Jaek pays the money and we go looking for a shaddy spot, Slammed on the gas through this up hill down hill section and the drive we even have fun when its needed, We end up in just a nothing playground with no thought. The boys never ask wear we going, cause i dont know, and its there to deciede, Our favorite shop is salvos, our favourite cafe sells risoelle sandwiches for me and its quiet when no body goes there, but i put out a rug , ten minutes there off and i fell asleep…

They wake me up i think and i went to the playground bit and they put some effort into a shop they made where the thought stopped before what there selling, so that becomes there focus and they stretch out these little thoughts more and more and you see where there at, Jaek was stuck on 14 with counting and he not really a 3 and 9 month kids , he a bit small and the year i never seen him set him back but no big deal now and it all goes down to naht for getting him through it. Buts its only a day and a arvo per week , and there busy, but there pushy hard for extra and was doable short term to develop a week in a day, and i wanted to focus on research, but there the best research any how.

So jackie got the 14 and im the maths guy and love the maths talking, but i havent been showing off the maths tricks and he is top and went good in a maths competision that was voluntary, and i was picking up that he was getting interested in anything numbers. i dont feel it a bad thing, but he got to expand his thought i feel can only be good, but in will be hard as me or his mum, are noable to lead the. my maths processers.

From there we made it to across the road in 3 hours. These are always the best days when you just get into a conversation there no thought of therapy, its just nature now..  We just like move in a general formation to where ever i but mainly then just lead the way, there never a thought of we are not actually doing anything. We watched a bloke with the hood up then when the car went we talked About the big dog in this truck. Now a 3.5 is at a big disadvantage in knowledge and he cant do the long thought, but he goes alright, we sat on these coppers logs for an hour and you just talk and i never actually bother to look but there like rubbing them selves on you and like this effection i never had, but just seems natural.. its not like back when where they only got effection in negative  emotions standpoints. Naht in this spots does bring up thing he wasnt sure about, and it feels a little bit like he is commputing as well but i think it not as b I mentioned that there mum wasnt happy that you call another girl hotlips and , What is diet, they like hearing about my days as a kid, we talked about how 15/2 score in soccer it not what you want. Until nathan need a poo and we go to the servo across the road and he tells us to stay in this spot, and was just so we could hear him talking, Offered a slushy and sat in the car wash . seating. We heading back home and asked to stop at the salvos, the two of em went together to get a cucumber and both loved that, there was this rock band playing next door to the store and little one was just getting in to it and it was over while…

Then we get in the store, and they get these lawnmower toys for like 18 m babies and they just went round and round the store following each other for twenty minutes, Like there never been ratbags, and not ever quite.. I said alright im off, and they came like it was nothing.. It will be some effect.. you dont just out of the blue do those things.

Then we got home and they just go inside and start playing with there toys, with 100%focus, and not even thinking about me and thats twice in a row now tins has happened. An hour later Naht comes out and just goes straight out side and brings in a brick. His mums says no brick inside, So he takes it back out, come in and not a word and they both pack up the toys, take em outside in a complete one motion and as good any adultcould move it all..  This is definetly a thing.. But then when it time to stop its near 7 and it like that just started the day. Then it being 9pm, and the movie over, they want to sleep with me, but i not live there. Lights are off and everyone in mumbed…an She asked jaek what was the best thing he done today, he stands up to ramble on

 

THERE KNOWLEDGE BASE IS LOW, IT HARD TO SOLVE SOMETHING WHEN YOU HAVE SOMETHING MISSING YOU NEED TO, OR THERE ARE THINGS YOU LEARNED THAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND, ALSO KNOWLEDGE NOT SUITED FOR A CHILD A WELL AS ISSUE FROM YOUNGER YEARS. LIKE ALL THING S WHEN YOU FIRST START ITS NOT AUTOMATIC. CHILREN CAN BE SAYING THING OVER AND OVER OR END A SENTANCE WITH SOMETHING FAMILIAR LIKE BUM AND POOP IN MY CASE, YOU CAN TFIND A RYME WORD AND ENDLESS OTHER THING. I FOCUSING ON A BASIC EXPLANATION TO NOT DISTRACT FROM THE MAIN ISSUE AND THAT IS THOUGHT PROCESS. THOUGHT PROCESS IS NOT SOMETHING WE ARE BORN WITH HOW WE THINK AND SOLVE IS VERY DEPENDENT ON HOW WE ARE TAUGHT.  PARENTS AND KINDERGARTEN OFTEN BY 4 YEARS OLD ARE OUR MAIN WAYS A CHILD WILL BE ABLE TO LEARN.. WHEN A CHILD AROUND 4 STARTS TO MOVE INTO THE A LONGER THOUGHT, THEY CAN GO FROM THE MORE BASIC SEE THAT AND SO ITS THAT.. CHILDREN WILL AT THE YOUNG AGE SEEM VERY OBSERVANT BE ABLE TO KNOW REALLY AMAZING THINGS, BUT ITS VERY SHORT THOUGHT, SEE A BLUE CAR SAY BLUE CAR AND THAT’S HOW EARLY THOUGHT PROGRESSES, THEY WILL KNOW WHERE THE YOU HID THE CHOCOLATE, THEY KNOW THINGS THAT THEN CAN RELATE TO SOMETHING ELSE, BUT IF YOU PUT HIM AN ISLE AWAY IN THE SHOPPING CENTRE, HE HAS BASICALLY GOT AN OPTION IF YOUR NOT THERE IT WILL BE A MELT DOWN, THEY CANT JUST NIP UP TO THE CASHIER AND ASK WHICH WAY DID MY MUM GO BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I SEEN HER AND SHE WAS WEARING THIS.. Me;t down and then the store owner realises that the child cant say any more and then finds the mum for the child..Children can even have thought problems with this smaller range but ADHD occurs after that, besides parents saying that he was always had it to born with it, that cant occur, until around this age… While there is a million theories or what ever the brain up down , it does not matter, if you look it will always be a case that research hope, possible new information, coulud be the break through, and absolutley nothing, that is psychiatrys actual stance, the rest they a only willing to sag it is believed or research indicates, which all is impossible and nothing to do with any of it.. It even why, you will never se any real imaging and theat picture is just so your mind see something and not just the words that if you read always mean nothing.. It not a new trick, some call it marketing even, It’s called manipulation and it works as long as no one knows about any of what you say, but you got the image in your mind and what gets process then has levels of belief that get stronger with more conformation as the thought, get then the message it needed to feel more comfortable,, and i can go into manipulation more. But we are human, and walking on eggshells of worrying about what people say to not believing anything also will have various different effects. But at the end of the day, we have a lot of develop knowledge that need to be taken on and our mind does, you cant not believe when you dont fully understand the derived process or it would begin, even language cant start with out being able to take on ‘what people tell you..

So more around 4 but can start a bit later, especially when then learming and competision from other kids to keep up in all ares of life and kids have not developed self esteem and heaps of other ways to deal with new problems, very dependent on melt downs still and thats cause they learn ed works and takes a while to shange thought and establish better ways, But it also, brings up, the fact that we all including me know the brain as this thing that magically solves thing for us and some people were born intelligent, he is a bad, kid, all the stories, but the brain is used as the reference and even the thing they reasearch but its fact the have ever found anything or an indication, the same as your big toe or your ball sack it siting at zero for all three and takes about five minutes and all scientist know its a reference, when you move into the central nervous i would have clue, but i heard the brain does that..besides scientist not not saying the brain does any thinking or story information in files there are many groups, people interested in science on all levels will lay down and die they are so positive, just dont ask to expand on that.. You have other emotions dependant on that being true often for a wide variety of things, from religion to evolution and you may have even argue thing about it.. if not, you the only one ever.. and that also means that human development has produced two types of humans… .. This is just rambled, basically there a ten trucks of things that are and nothing that is and that will be the theme.. and it goes deeper than ieven want to know.. But the ADHD , they will say allsorts to through from it doesn”t exist to blaming the kids to the parents its this miracle disorder, that when discovered is called a disorder because of it symtom’s, are found in every case.. ‘They were in my boy and exactly like the other six familys now that all (‘boys), irrelavent ‘that started with the first where i can detail of the whole experience because it happened and four two days i tried to inspire him to get the jo done as it is the most amazing expierce that you ever go through, that was all unnecessary and in half hour you can have the next expert on ADHD.. 19 days for a boy who was nearly 7 is the longest to be completely fine, and a month later he was back up to standard from being start a kindergarten level in schooling. Its hard to learn when you cant think, or meds that have you staring into the blankness..  With a young boy, like 5 even with how i know how to target emotions, i cant see it being more than a week, even if a few behaviour difficulties have started.

But ADHD is not this irrelavent disorder like all disorders, they are all relevan to that emotion which is dependant on thought process, With out thought process none of em can really develope and is why you dont see the other disorders yet, ADHD can only happen if the thought process keeps stopping. And whilst i was devasted at watching him slide, like every one else, you cant make the connection cause any information is not there… But its an obvious cant miss is you got 2 mins of relevent information, when you start having a few thought stop even the longer thought a child is aware of something but he cant know, its just available that something else pops ins his head to think about and he got to trail and error and be help and also pick up in all the different ways to get this thought process established, Clearly there are more things these days then before that are going to effect that, but the thought is learning what to do, it gets onfidence to twich on and help from parents and lots of ways to help it along, new information can start it or just long sessions of play and it a battle that can stop all the time and someone is allways helping when it gets stuck and you help and encourage, and you dont realise stopping thought, but if you had kids or been through it recently is contant this is happening, if you say he born dumb or he just doesnt think all of that is impossible, and is said by people who sometime are not equiped emotional to help there child, the only information that is factual is the heavy corelation to problem familys and also lower class which has he correlation to back to family problems.. Of course people are aware of this and caused the any other reason than the factual one, but illness in a child of this nature is ludercross the it could happen to so with an economic situation.

 

When you stopping and poppin in thought, what the attention span going to do, its going to decrease, and thinking gives you confidence and praise when its all kicking off , thought allows for play and discovery and this is heavy through this time, whilst the other way like all disorders, needs to be something quiet below whats average to occur, but its not that big a slide with adhd, when confidence start droppin with a lower attention span you always need some to help or you just do something you get a few no jolting through to stop thought more, and a few extra loof away because now you are being a pain and you losing left right and centre.. the play grounf you lst five minutes when annoying every one and the you seeing all the other kids and there is no missing when your boy hasnt said and intelligent thing or even had a thought, heavy mimicking behavior, toys like stick waking and just desperation on face, you say something and all he gut is a no or disagree  to you that occurs on your speaking, telling other kids what to do and no ideas that come with  that because thats what he is learn when he getting the no all the time, everything all roles for a reason and no one going to say they werent, perfect especially when there got an exterior to block out thing over the years that hurt them, but the disorder, what does the disorder actually do… it triggers thought, hyperactivity, to experiece something also trigger thought, attention disorder, was not named this as a guess, and if you think in the day it wasnt going to be noticed, thats more ludercross, things back then were tight, but very simple, you get beaten as a bad kid and every adhd parent knows that doesnt work… Thought process is an emotion that hits straight to that exact use the disorder does, and its at that age it begins, and needed for development… Development is a must of every thing or survival doesnt happen, every thing that survives need that or there gone long ago, there in no system of random negative illness or anything that even resembles that , how would that evolves is a thing as a thing, why would it, no one is out to make a race suffer, that fairy tales, this is children lifes, you would do it to your self,

Solution, —– simple endless flowing conversation that doesnt end, ecourages and buildes  confidence where focus stays on the child and nothing breaks the parent focus to into with fun warth, and praise for the slightest of thoughts and encouragement, its the kids and if there seven they might be 4 or five so its all that, you got to be that kid and even the friend as there got big problems with parentas well, you got to build the trust, and ita mentality that just explores what there is in front and if you have to imagine and just tell mindless thought os your self as a child just keep it going, your talking is still encouraging his thought, you even do a 8 hour day there is heavy progress, but there is no even hint of a no, if he needs to do some thing stupid, or mindless it doesnt help to say no tell him to do it again will trigger the thought over a no, both run around like fuckwit, and promise your self you wont say no, the more you find and excuse not to will just mean the more it was you,  fuck pride the whole lot, it might be a hard when you not like that in two week your whole is fixed and your got a child again and you will be wondering what the fuck, you will be spewing that info didnt come out, it is there is leess  forms, but psychiatry crushed it as it went for the chemical bull shit, kids under 7 will be flying out of ADHD and excuses are going to be fucking abuses, and then the next step will be it on the parent and not the child and adhd plumeting .. You want to challenge this then i will will no problem , expose your self fully and we have a talk and if there is any possible issue that you may have thay will come out quick but you wont be getting any other question other than go straight for the spot, that gets protected and you cant fight if there an issue there, and i got literally hundreds, its the most toxic place on earth ADHD  parent groups and i got heaps of parent recorded clear as the sun shines only looking for info, so there got it for them selves, people disconnecting there profile, me showing what happen when i hit back at  like 15 people irate for just suggesting in is a thought disorder, and they go straight to admin and cliam there being abused, happen, i got it recorded know what they say, masses of people believing stuff thats been disproven, but there no stories of happy child or what ever…and i not deleting faces there going straight up the videos, and probably will be the story then,,, but i can guarantee one thing, nothing will be disputed other that spot fires with nothing and of course im ready with that, 2 people working full time just collecting all the bull shit and lies of the last 50 years.. fuck another million kids getting illness, if i wrong or of even smell in anyway but just more child abuse will get any toxic or worse emotions applied to what missing in the comment, and then ten thousand bundles of evidence that is from there own…there is no restrictions nothing posted from the real source, my own country wont even be used, its a fucken joke the whole way and cant be seen as anything else, and there aint nothing i want to do less than this, but  i seen the psych ward already,  and a delusion diagnosis with evidence of a part of psychopathy that can’t be imagined as about standard for a range of decisions that all end up at the start on kids, once you attack them… i can show that too..

 

 

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ADHD—-THOUGHTPROCEss

ADHD

SOME NEW AND IMPORTANT CONCEPTS  (THE FACTORS)

1)ADHD is a personality disorder…..this is a good description. It plays a major role in a persons personality.

2)Personality—can also be referred to as mind state, or emotional state, Even who they are. It is made up of all the emotions that have developed since birth to what you are today or your mind state

3)Emotions–include- your self esteem, worry,  anger, remorse, empathy, attachment and  others For ADHD i refer to that emotion as Thought process.. so it is quiet different from the rest

4)Certainty why thought process is a developed emotion, still getting that proof, but looks certian already, but this was determined from personal experience and their is only one mind and the only reason all this was able to be figured out…My thought process was developed before 4 by my sister and still the same,, its mathematical.. that means my mind cant accept all the learned stuff or incorrect knowledge of psych so then be unable to figure out, i cant interpret things, opinions other stuff , i cant do, mathematically im seen as genius, some areas, i don’t register in general, from non abused i have never spotted a natural intelligence just some thought process that are very good

5)How do emotions develop—- there is a process the human mind has and a standard type description will be similar to this happening over and over….example   A child 6years old falls, so there mind state processes this experience and it may be the pain they feel and why they fell and emotions are attached to that thought… and then added to the mind state.. And now the mentality is a bit more aware of dangers that might be sticking out of the grass, that it hurts when you fall over and how much and you get a bit more used to pain… Your 6 so you still deal with that by crying and your mum, and you might by now fallen 50 times and you also have some mentality starting so a range of things wher the mother involve is a touch less than last time and more push to get up to see if  he can walk alright and a quicker recovery and  more away from mum dependant to towards dealing with and all the relevant emotions tweak a little and get the strength of the feeling attached to the thought and it becomes part of the mentality. The mums love and what she showed in kindness and all tha gets processed and added to mentality and its just a cycle of though over and over and that’ how emotions develop. Gradually from a process of life experiences moving every thing together developing there mind.

Emotions how they work

There are a few given you could call it 1)They have a development stage where you are young and taking in and growing fast then it tapers off and just a gradual change in mentality occur.. It a given when survival has occurred. Any negative movement inclination would go away from survival. Also the development stage is needed o one day you repeat the process of your parents and continues the survival..

Another key characteristic is that emotions will  give you a feeling when you have a thought process. There must be feeling to thought or there is no point and again that will not survive…The the feeling your emotion gives you has to always try to help you …This is a given to an emotion that indicated the wrong direction to head then survival would not of happened…

Also it has to start blank with just its limits and ways it can work with instincts and survival always Number  1 priority. Any other priority over survival means it doesn’t…

There also has to be a range that you can’t drop below. The higher up the better you feel as happiness is needed to want to survive and it just given good things mean happier or you wouldn’t survive being directed at bad things..  There just standards that all species have, nothing we consider so stating them is needed.. Every species mind will also have in place ways that the suffering doesn’t be never ending and intensity wise.. A dog reaches that beaten down stage and stays there, develops early with training but then cant be or much harder to train when older and all the animals with the personalities we can relate to have this.. Dogs have vertualy the same personality but just 100 times simpler

Also because its the mind to survive there must be some sort of way so you don’t go into a region you can’t stand the pain mentally or when an emotion, stops developing.. You need a species that has a way of warning of threat and ability to get well.. But as last resort, a stop, were you still survive, you can get to the end as survival and reproduction are still there and this is mental illness, which is not an illness, its a stop from going into the region where you cant bear survival.  When you understand mental illness in a form of mass people you feel it, you see it. the personality disorder that starts to attach at levels where development becomes at risk and survival also becomes a risk is when the disorder can only start to appear to save the person from not wanting to live..The perception is the illness wants to die. That is not the case and all disorders i have seen on mass have far mor survival than normal and reproduction is the one thing uneffected, often incentivized,, The stage before the disorder takes full effect is the more likely time for death or when drugs and alcohol effect senses or shame and exposure where disorders have not kept up with. Mass numbers in groups and mass posting of the not a huge variety of thing because each disorder only protects certain emotions. I don’t know the psychiatry definitions the symptoms or any part of psychiatry, but there are a lot of over laps between in a few disorders and the person just sticks out and posts that there sure. Because of how i process and what i know, i can diagnose or spot the difference with out thought… 2000 times i don’t think i been wrong once.

Every disorder clearly saves that emotion though… Very clear. Whats referred to as skitzophenia , clearly has a couple of different types.

Depression is self esteem and most things start off any way so most are emotional abuse but all forms Anxiety is worry, which all forms of abuse create this to and they clearly protect those emotions

Borderline—-huge illness–all raped neglect with the same emotes covered  %

Bipolar—-insane neglet–molest, rape, young abuse very big  near 100%

Narcissist abused—-6 illness all the same

Schitzophenia—fear and responcibilty –smallest number,   and the onset is at the end of development age with real schitz in the big range of abuse but more intense physical abuse.. All the big illness never talk about the abuse  because it needs to be supressed

 

Psychos–don’t have the emotions to other—- no suffering— the weaker self esteem—they don’t suffer as there is not negative thought hence emotions don’t react and they feel good, manipulate on the lower level— cause they dont feel for other in a communications sense, so they see the facial expression– and manipulation becomes an instinctual thing and a survival trait not being exposed,

And each disorder has its role for each emotion and only comes in when that emotion is under threat from bringing the person into that survival area.

The fact that there seems to be these born psycho and little bits and pics that seem to be outliers her and there are very few, and always a reason, with certain disorders never telling the truth, to chunks of life missing because of the intensity and sickness, to incident in life that the mind processed the same or similar to abuse, and then the large amount of heriditary Mental illness because a child can not develop the same emotion that they are not shown

 

This level of toxic person i just as i haven’t looked in the normal also has disorder.  And level of belief in thing look to be a disorder as well..

When talking about is abuse and life experience the cause, it’s at 100%

The reason why psychiatry moved out of the area—simple—same as whats happening everywhere

 

A OUTLINE OF HOW A CHILD GET ADHD

Very simple disorder

around 3.5yrs old thought process lengthens and the thought process starts to develop.. It need practice and confidence and repeatision with encouragement and praise and help with ways from the parent, as well as input from the bits missing needed to complete thought process to a solution…  thats why a lot of ADHD occurs at this early  but then continues for a few more years into school, as concepts get a bit more and kids drop off with poor developed thought processes, and confidence can get hit in extreme from other children going ahead and young children dont yet have developed emotions of empathy yet and can really rip into another chid with honest assessments and confidence and self-esteem with out any support and can give up and thought process stop to, and its not like other illness where a long decline is needed because other emotions are dependant on this thought process and ADHD does come in much faster, but its a clear decline before the ADHD comes and you can see the similarities that go from stopped thought to starting and end up stoping and the shortened attention span already before ADHD and the triggered responsives from another person being able to spark there thought and the misbehavor as they go for easier and easier thing that dont require thought, but  you can see in there eyes the worry and blankness of not having thought, there communication becomes so poor where all you hear i the most basic thoughts and for montjs straight you will not here a worthwhile word said, you get better thought from and 8 month old baby..

Its there and its the only way..

Even the sharp spike reflects all the actual changes where thought of parent of not being diagnosed years ago are the reasons, is not true, ADHD kids would of been less tolerated back then.

New enviroment does play a small part with the amount of things that need to be learned , but withe the increase in mental illness being a large factor in play to.. Mental illness suffers do not have the same ability and are missing emotions that the child need for thought process and development but also very narowin what they teach and dont see the child like an average parent, disorders alway take care froma survival point of view but are heavily only thinking about he disorder and are not there at all to pick up thought process that gets stuck and need a push along and help and also expressing the concerns of the disorded to the child that cant process this stuff, no body can, there heavily in learning mode still and are sucking the life out of everything to develop any way they can.. There is big force behind the increase in ADHD numbers.. And now the largest factor that seems to be really pushing up the numbers… The groups of ADHD well into the millions are the most toxic enviroments you will ever see, they are discusting with blame punching down on there children and the suggestion even you can help rises outrage, if a teacher any one talks to these parent it is outrage and  these kids have got no chance they will disconnect there profiles, complain in mass to admin at the thought of helping there children, abuse, the lot, is not welcome and none of the even talk about anything but how great they are , and the reasons for the children supplied by psych are latched on to as fact even after it is proven otherwise.. They seemed concern  when they present there child to get the medication but there outraged if there child want as much of a bit of advice , they get slammed for being stupid and its the worst enviroment even for me to experience

 

Solution

Solution, —– simple endless flowing conversation that doesnt end, ecourages and buildes  confidence where focus stays on the child and nothing breaks the parent focus to into with fun warth, and praise for the slightest of thoughts and encouragement, its the kids and if there seven they might be 4 or five so its all that, you got to be that kid and even the friend as there got big problems with parentas well, you got to build the trust, and ita mentality that just explores what there is in front and if you have to imagine and just tell mindless thought os your self as a child just keep it going, your talking is still encouraging his thought, you even do a 8 hour day there is heavy progress, but there is no even hint of a no, if he needs to do some thing stupid, or mindless it doesnt help to say no tell him to do it again will trigger the thought over a no, both run around like fuckwit, and promise your self you wont say no, the more you find and excuse not to will just mean the more it was you,  fuck pride the whole lot, it might be a hard when you not like that in two week your whole is fixed and your got a child again and you will be wondering what the fuck, you will be spewing that info didnt come out, it is there is leess  forms, but psychiatry crushed it as it went for the chemical bull shit, kids under 7 will be flying out of ADHD and excuses are going to be fucking abuses, and then the next step will be it on the parent and not the child and adhd plumeting .. You want to challenge this then i will will no problem , expose your self fully and we have a talk and if there is any possible issue that you may have thay will come out quick but you wont be getting any other question other than go straight for the spot, that gets protected and you cant fight if there an issue there, and i got literally hundreds, its the most toxic place on earth ADHD  parent groups and i got heaps of parent recorded clear as the sun shines only looking for info, so there got it for them selves, people disconnecting there profile, me showing what happen when i hit back at  like 15 people irate for just suggesting in is a thought disorder, and they go straight to admin and cliam there being abused, happen, i got it recorded know what they say, masses of people believing stuff thats been disproven, but there no stories of happy child or what ever…and i not deleting faces there going straight up the videos, and probably will be the story then,,, but i can guarantee one thing, nothing will be disputed other that spot fires with nothing and of course im ready with that, 2 people working full time just collecting all the bull shit and lies of the last 50 years.. fuck another million kids getting illness, if i wrong or of even smell in anyway but just more child abuse will get any toxic or worse emotions applied to what missing in the comment, and then ten thousand bundles of evidence that is from there own…there is no restrictions nothing posted from the real source, my own country wont even be used, its a fucken joke the whole way and cant be seen as anything else, and there aint nothing i want to do less than this, but  i seen the psych ward already,  and a delusion diagnosis with evidence of a part of psychopathy that can’t be imagined as about standard for a range of decisions that all end up at the start on kids, once you attack them… i can show that too..

 

 

THE REAL MENTAL ILLNESS STORY

IS THIS REALLY WHAT A CHILD AND LITTLE GIRL NEED FOR THERE MIND

borderline bersonality disorder people say
TW: How many here suffered from abuse? physical, sexual or other (neglect, verbal etc)
And if so, was your abuser ever punished

 VICTIMS OF THE MENTAL ILLNESS    ALL ABUSED

 Both me and my bro have BPD. He is older. I saw more and experienced more than him but we both are very sensitive and have bpd

 I got bpd. My brother that four years older than me seem so normal but he showing more more signs of mental illness and having bpd like me.. he went threw same things I did and a lot worse I believe

 But he more normal than me. I can’t be normal like he can. He walk in the room and make friends and i hid

 It’s okay. I’ll be okay. It just I feel bad for my brother. Ty for offer I might take up on it

 Love to you xx I am older, my sister is 2 1/2 years younger and I am a screwed up mess while she is a confident, successful business woman. My problem is thought to be linked to childhood trauma experience(s) but I have no recollection of what happened xx

 Im the youngest…. she’s fine, I’m not. I was the one sexually abused.

I’m the youngest too and i was abused in many ways including sexual. My brother remember some what happen to me but not any of the sexual stuff beside one incident but other things has happen..bur he successful guy

I’m the youngest… But believe me… If I could have protected my brother and sister from my dad… I would have.

 Youngest of 5. Not much childhood trauma that I remember. Mine came in my teens after a series of rape and miscarriage and from there I spiraled down. I can see how the symptoms but I can’t exactly pin point what started off

 How many people have had multiple traumas though?? For me it wasn’t just the abuse I saw between my dad and my family…but from other stuff that happened.Yep multiple here too. Xx

 Yes for me it is psychological, emotional, phsycical, and sexual abuse, as well as having our mum leave. This all went in between ages 5 to 15, when they finally kicked me out of home.

Yes!!! Mine was repetitive trauma in various forms that illicited the same emotional response of abandonment

Manage Multiple traumas here as well

I’m the oldest sibling in my family. I’m the only one who has BPD because i was most affected by my father walking out when i was four years old

 Childhood traManage

mental health issues too inc anxiety and depression and adhd. We were brought up differently (12 yr age gap) but both have multiple trauma and abuse.
My mum is deffo bpd and I reckon so was her sister before she took her own life. Their mum, my gran was diagnosed with bipolar in later life.Mum’s side is messed up but dad’s doesn’t seem to have any mh illnesses from what I know.

 I’m the oldest both parents didn’t want me (mum blamed me from very early on for her situation single mum and all, dad was a weekend dad who most of the time forgot to pick me up so I’d sit waiting all day 😦
Then my step brother raped me! So childhoo…See more

 My parenting has suffered so much from BPD, having to raise my kids with no family help or support… You are doing better than me!

 Hi my sister is resisting getting help as she is scared of social services taking her kids any advice I can give her?

Yes I was a sensitive kid..they look at me I cry.then get beat for crying..and yes

 Im oldest too .I have a younger brother he was never hit by our father just me. I go to High School with black eyes..no one cared yay to the 70’s..no pne noticed cause they were smacking kids in school..omg..trigger. i gotta go..

 My sister has severe BPD, I do not (on the other hand, I struggle with depression and anxiety, but its under control now). I am 4 years older than her. No childhood trauma, at least not in the terms of abuse of any kind…our family was dysfunctional, …See more

 Same my dad use to thrash me with belts

 I just got in this group today because I read up on BPD and it seems to fit. I’ve only been seeing a therapist for 2 months. I don’t have a diagnosis. I had multiple traumas. I’m the middle child. My siblings are effed up in their own way. We’re not close. We all have decent jobs. I have several failed relationships. My brother is mostly self isolated. My sister snaps at the drop of a hat.

dont want to get into details but I think its genetic, and depends on the trauma under gone. I was abused also as a child , I did not talk about it till older and well self medicated lol I lived in a world where mostly bad stuff happened untill I was 25 or so. They say genetics but as a precurser and trauma as a trigger . I have lived through physical, sexual,emotional and self abuse .I still work (doc medicated) helps me from going off and keeping my job I attend therepy. One day I want to stop thinking about what happened and have whats next for me. I want to know who I am this identity mixup has always plagued me. Good luck on your journey to your new life and away from yesterday. I have sisters who are just really good at putting on their normal faces 🙂

 Oh Kate. That’s something I told my therapist, I feel like I’ve lived most of my life hiding behind a smiling mask. The older you get the harder it is to keep on.

 I fully blame my parents emotionally unstable relationship for my BPD, it was pure fucked right from the start and I’m convinced that I have this shitty condition because of them.

Arseholes  I love them and all bit I think if they weren’t screaming at each other in front of me and  Same…whatever it is I have. If it’s not this is something that T Said is going to take a lot of time and work

 I get pissed at my little sister for not being as fuxked up as I am too… Which is not fair on her, as she is my primary ‘carer’ and support person.

 Crap isn’t it  I hate how much control other peoples actions have over me, I just want something to permanently block out any if my emotions.

Well depends on what kind of siblings your talking about. I am both a middle child and the baby lol. My sister went though worse abuse then me. She was really really badly screwed up for many years. But she got 2 years of counseling which really helped her. Now she is a functioning adult with 2 jobs, friends

 I have step brothers and a half sister… I tend not to count them… Issues much?!!!?!
I was sexually abused by one step brother, and the half sister is 21 years my junior and quite the narcisist.

 I’m the oldest.an I’m a hot Fuckkin mess too.my little sister and brother we didn’t grow up together I just found out about them

 I am in DBT and they explained the bio/social theory. Some of it is just who we are, and some of it is based on things that have happened to us. I’m the oldest. 2 brothers. one i was raised with, one i wasnt…neither of them is “crazy” at all.

 My bpd spouse is the eldest of two. His sis is 2-3 yrs younger. I never thought about birth order and how it may relate to bpd. Good q!

 I’m the oldest and myself and my siblings all endured abuse and were all fucked up. I’m the only one with bpd tho

 I suffered abusea Am the Eldest of 2 sisters. I got fckedup too to protect my youngst sister. Am now the ‘crazy’ + ‘black sheep’ of the still disfunctional family. Ty 4 ur post. Your not alone on this one. Bravo mayb 4 us childhood survivors who now r products of this fcked up ‘so called perfect normal ones’ pple. Sorry I say Fck them all. We r the perfect ones!!!

 You know what I am discovering about us?

We are fucking FASCINATING.
All of you are. We are complicated, deeply feeling people. Some from trauma, some not, but most of us (I think??) are very sensitive people? Would I be correct in saying so?

 Eely sensitive. I wear my heart on my sleeve.

 We are all amazing strong lovely people and we should all be proud of each other  xxx

 In all honesty, the psychological department could learn a tonne from us if they all were as nice to us as we are to each other! This proves so much… Look how many of us ‘fucked up psychos’ on one page… And I see a tonne of pain, and NONE of it is directed to anyone but ourselve

We are amazing kind people. I get made fun of at church cause I’m SO sensitive!! Well that works two ways

 I was sexually abused. My sister was not. She has a really good job, is a great mom and house keeper, no criminal record. She’s the golded child and I’m the black sheep.

 Same here. I am the oldest and I took care of my sister. I have bpd and she is fine. Went to college and made something of herself. We are very close.

 Yes, same with my sister

Less than 2 years ago, the deepest i got into mental health was that they were crazy.. I wonder why i thought that.. Someone must of told me and it always come from the same place.. The great people in mental health putting up with the crazy people, Trust me it is nothing like that. It patients putting up with Psychiatry, that will not even listen to stories of horror, when its exactley 100%of the time the same reason for mental heal heath.. And its women and children who are number one and two on the distcustingest hidiouus abuse you cant image… Mental health might be what in your mind, but reality is they refuse to believe abuse is the cause of mental illness and then block any knowledge so that other can protect themselves from being ill and know when others are feeling down or when children are being savagely abused.. This is mental health,, The place psychiatry runs rule and yet to fix a person in history.. Im a fucken tradesman and solved the whole lot… PsYchiatry is by far the biggest form of mass child abuse that will ever happen.. These monsters that have been getting covered up since day one are destroyers that have no emotions or remorse , but psychiatry refuses to list them as a problem.. These are some responses from young girls to women, the group is 160,000 deep all of em raped and badly abused, how cant psychiatry join the dots up with that.. This is a heavy illness where these girls will never get better. What happens with abuse is that when the abuse is over, it doesnt stop, Its now plastered on the inside walls of your head so then you destroy yourself from your own mind until your emotions are so destroyed  that a disorder called borderline personality disorder starts, and its because your to broken , and no girl survives these attacks, not one. It is impossible to block out Abuse . This is the protection given to women. They are destroyed, never given therapy with a disorder now that makes them suffer so much from fear of being abandomed.. And the schizophrenia people  you always hear about, it is not magical illness either. It called physical abuse of young child…. Psychiatry went bad along time ago and know that it cant let it out.. It is the worst thing you could ever imagine with 50YRS  of abuse to look at  but instead block it out and look at something irrelavet. Mental illness has doubled in that time and there was no sign in sight.. They thought they could just keep releasing bit of discusting filth to bring down the abused, beautiful women and children… And you know what stops them from recovering, beside the actual mental health, is the fact that to recover they need To confront the abuse and then turn it around mentally will being weakens from sickening abuse and cant fucken do it.. Everytime the abuse works the same an everytime the outcome is the same and everytime mental health makes it even worse.. You wonder why you need feminist groups, why because abusers been getting protected for as long as we can remember and every one like a baby cause mental health has gOt it under control… They have zero understanding of the issues, and just see abused people that is to much for them so they shut down and join in the abuse.. I seen bad in my life and this is the worst thing that will ever happen .. When the dusts settles and you see the cost of the suffering, it is enormaous.. and there are 100S of millions of storys all the same….

Here is how you deal with abuse like a man… No big gang bearing down on a woman, This is the woman bearing down on the big gang

adhd

INFORMATION YOU NEED FOR ADHD

       Here is a brief outline of what causes adhd and how you fix it. We have had 100%sucess up until a child is 7 yrs old and think it would be the same result up until 9. The same method is used. The cause of ADHD is exactley as the name suggests, All 7 boys got ADHD the same and the only way possible. I know Mental health cloud the water with unproven claim and have no answers the whole spectrum of mental health but deny children any sort of chance  with refusal to treat mental illness.

          Around the age of 3.5—4yrs mostly by can happen at  other ages and often not picked up, a child begins to be able to think a bit more.  He is on the verge of working many things out, H and all the children around the same age move from just soaking up knowledge and having an easy thought process to any answer, to thinking. And there is lots to think about. There not confident in the way they think yet, and there not even able to automatically switch it on yet. There still need lots of confidence to trust the new sensation they are have. Any thinking they are trying to do needs to be simple and have enough learning for them to have the thinking or there mind just stops. Its not like an adult who auto matically thinks round and round. 

          They are just trying out thinking and when they cant do it they dont know yet how to proceed and it ends in losing attention as the thought stops and the mind wonders off. This happens over and over and generally when there is this not enough of the general basic things that they need. Often there problems and often its just a lot of negative , being told no all the time and not starting the process in confident mind set. So with my son and the other 6 Boys you notice a child often not knowing what to do just before the ADHD start. He will have lost confidence to think and cant switch the thought back on so you will see little thinks like copying anyone as its easy thought. Any you will see alot of reactionary talking, where he is not saying anything until you speak and he is able to react then and in most cases its and automatic disagree and you havent even said enough to disagree, But also you will notice play resort to just stick waking or he will tell another child to to something that wont get to an actual thing to do as he stops in thought, They often get doubled as well as there interupting other play so much that other kids drop the quick, I also noticed it had been a while he had said anything even remotely decent.. They just get stuck in thought and while it sounds like the easiest thing in the world when your aware of it, it somehow doesnt register cause all relevant mental health knowledge you need isnt avaliable. I was just lucky with my boy that i was aware and finally just tried something that happened to be write. And when there that age half the time your just thinking when will it stop. But its just totally normal for your child to start suffering and the you make it worse as he doing all these little thigs wrong now. Onc his mind has near stopped the he isnt able to develop all the other ways a boy does, or girl… And the body has a disorder that starts taking effect when the attention span is low and the confidence is low and thoughts nearly stopped.. And ADHD is able to surface at this point, it purpose is exactly what it says, the disorder is able to kick start thought again and all so there confidence is protected by the disorder, But there near certain to get other disorder later as a result.. 

Adhd in adults is hard but int young kids its straight up an down and certain. So far 19 days is the longest and there good again , but also able to catch right up and go past if you want cause now your aware of whats good fore them..

All you have to think is confidence and continue thought, So he has been through hell, so just a nice start to get a bit of trust back and then just provide the enviroment where you dont say no and if he stops thought the step in with something and make it funny, but try to put in the long hours as it like they can progress quiet for in a day, let em talk and you start blabbing on and its a good time.. You do need to put in a little though to get rid of the disorder, but you wont even notice the point it goes… But you will notice how the thoughts stop and you got to start em again or he is fucked so yo best be putting in the big one.. Always give the encouragement, and just keep the conversation going and its good. It a night mare for all other wise.. I think even if you didnt go to hard with the effort  just knowing of the way to  process is the way…