Mental Illness, emotions and the mind

I have found that ones mental state whether strong or weak is determined from what your mind has gone through. That a mental illness is a result of particular emotions being in such a weak state that a mental illness or a personality disorder becomes an attachment to the thought process of the mind to stop the decline in the state of ones emotions. It keeps you at a low state emotionally but stops the decline of a person mind to dangerous levels that would be unbearable to live with. A person emotional growth primarily occurs early in life and mostly determined by those closest to the person and often dependant on. Mentally strong people being raised in ideal and loving circumstances that allowed for emotions to get strong over a long period of time down to people with a variety of disorders that have gone through less than ideal up bringing and onto being abused as children. How emotions are effected in a person is from thoughts from there mind and the mind gets its thoughts from what it is exposed to. The mind is our brain and it learns from what it is exposed to and try’s to solve life’s problems that we encounter naturally. It can only learn from what it is taught and depending on its strength will determine how well it is able to solve and learn and how we go through life.

That a humans emotions are part of our human instincts that give us a feeling if something or really a thought we are having is good or bad. This feeling we feel inside if we like something or not is our instincts trying to guide us through life in the best possible way by being attracted to the good feeling we feel from things. We should go to those good feelings as that is what makes us emotionally stronger.

Our mind is naturally learning and solving problems all the time and living a full life exposes our mind to new and interesting things which makes us stronger emotionally as we enjoy the feeling. Being bored and experiencing negative things in life gives us a bad feeling and makes us emotionally weaker. It makes our mind try to think through these low times and causes a cyclical negative thoughts to be had which damage us emotionally over and over and closer to a level emotionally where a disorder can take effect.

Emotions and the mind at birth are virtually blank with just our human instincts to rely on. That how we grow emotionally has to be learned from those we are dependant on and factors that relate to how we are mentally will be from our life experience. That we are all born the same emotionally and they are just that feeling of good or bad every time we go through something. How we are and what we believe is determined from what we experience in life and not from how we are born or any hereditary things. We can be like our parents because we have learned from them and its not a natural occurrence.

There is currently no reasons for mental illness or cure for mental illness the above is not established and we look for causes of mental illness in any area except for what we go through mentally and how it effects us emotionally. We known there is a correlation between being mentally ill and those who have been abused but there is much stronger correlations present. And that is that our whole mentally will correlate to what we have been through whether good or bad.

To fix someone with mental illness will require a strengthening of them emotionally and that will have to come from there own mind. Also this is difficult because a disorder has attached itself to there way of thought that often is negative in nature. Possibly working out ways to distract a disorder is the only way of repair and that means living a fuller and more active life if that’s at all possible.

The reason why it is obvious that a disorder attaches it self to ones mind and becomes a set way of thinking for some that isn’t logical is the similarities in people thoughts wheather man or woman and from any culture being the same while others with out any type of disorder having completely different thought process. Also those with the more extreme kind of disorders having children and these children all turning out the same emotionally often with many of the same mental illness.

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YOUR MIND AND MENTAL STRENGTH START DEVELOPING FROM THE DAY YOUR BORN

When your born your like a blank canvas. You have a brain that just has the ability to learn.  You don’t come into this world with any knowledge and start learning from the day you are born. Your emotions are like our human instincts that give off a feeling of what feels good or bad and they try to guide us through our life.

When we are born all we can do is cry, this alerts our parents that we need something. It will be that we need food, comfort, sleep or that we are in some discomfort. When our parent comes to us and helps us with the problem it make us feel good emotionally and to stop crying. Each time we cry and get what it is that we want or need it gives us more strength emotionally and confidence that when you cry someone is there and fixes the problem. You become attached to this person as they are there for you when they need you.

They are pretty much your everything and in these first year have built up this dependency on your parent where if there is anything you need you do what ever you know how to alert them and they help you. Each time you are stopped from being in distress you get stronger emotionally and as you get older you get less distressed when you need something. Your brain also learns that this person is able to help you to get what you need and to do what is best to get what you want. These are the beginings of your mind developing and your emotions getting stronger.

In the early days you build up this learning that if you want something you will do what pleases your parent as it gives you the best chance of getting what you want. And a big thing a young child wants is praise from there parent as it feels good to them emotionally. You do something new which is interesting for your brain and you learn something and that provides your parent with enjoyment and you feel this somehow as praise that makes you feel good inside giving you strength and your learning again to do what your parent wants as it makes them praise you and feel good and you enjoy what has happened and everything just circles together to give a child learning, strength and a bond to the parent.

You also start learning what not do, along with the hundreds of other things you are learning that are going to give you a base for the rest of your life in a lot of things. The reason a child does the wrong thing is because they don’t know better and need to learn something more to be able to do what is required so they get that praise and feel good. But a big thing in a young child is that they can only learn and how you teach them that something is wrong needs to be taught also. By that I mean you can show them the way or encourage them to think in another way by you teaching them and encouraging and praising them to do what you want. Saying no and giving your reasons why is often not going to work.

For starters if they could understand your reason in the first place then they probably wouldn’t of done it and they need to be taught in baby language and have no words that they don’t understand the meaning of and could take a while to progress through learning to get a child to not do something when young. It may be to not take something off another or cry for a certain thing or they cant have something, but your reasoning will take a while to get through as they haven’t learnt this stuff properly at a young age. Don’t forget also that there learning so many other things at this age so some things have to be taught many times before they can become learned from a child.

Its the same with an adult brain as well as a young child and that is that when you don’t understand something that you tend not to take any notice or switch off easier when you don’t know or have an interest in what someone is teaching you. With a lot of things that a brain or person learns it needs to be very step by step in its progression or the mind wonders to areas of thought that it has knowledge on and capable of thinking about.

When there are so many things all being learnt at once there are going to be many things that a child doesn’t get and you have to go back and teach or they simply will not know them. If a child misses something it can result in negative feedback instead of praise that they are looking for. Often a parent can miss that the child simply doesn’t understand something and that they are so young and learning so many things all at the same time. It may look like bad behaviour even at times when its a child not knowing how to act in the circumstance. This may cycle the other way from encouragement, praise, getting stronger and learning to negative, weaker and switching off.

As a child get up to the age of about three a lot of the things they have been learning start to make a bit of sense and they are able to apply there brain to things more and more and solve things for themselves. But there brain is still under developed and can think very simply. It is also not that used to thinking and will get a lot of things wrong. As it is not used to thinking a lot yet it still needs encouragement to think and to even switch on. It needs to get its confidence up to be able to think and to switch on to think. Thinking for a child only teaches them that you will think for them, telling them the answer or basically doing anything to disturb them or not to gently promote the use of there brain when young will all end up with them not being able to think and learn as good as possible.

A child gets to this point in life around three where a lot of the learning from birth needs to be applied in there life and in there play. They are also able to learn things where they are able to use there brain to make decisions or to give answers to questions and is an important stage in a childs life. They are very uncertain and can have confidence issues in there answers as there brain is just in the early stages of being able to think and to switch on and emotionally are growing very fast but also when growing fast emotions are weak and subseptable to things around them and a child is noticing everything.

Most of the time there is no troubles and a few glitches are easily fixed and a child gets through these years, but some do not and become a bit troubled and get ADD and ADHD. This happens when a child has too many thing it doesn’t understand and is not able to solve the things its required to while losing confidence in its ability to think and to switch on to think. When they switch on to think they are often met with negatives as there doing the wrong thing now and they don’t know what to do, They go into a spiral of losing confidence, negative praise and a drop in attension span due to them not being able to think there way through the little things that are being put to them. They are very observant and see other kids being able to do this and because there thoughts are interrupted by them not being able to think as well become disruptive to others trying to.

It spirals and spirals down emotionally and them not getting praise from the people that there trying to please and they don’t understand why as its the best they can do from what there been taught. They loose complete confidence in there learning and thinking and resort to bad behaviour as a cry out for help that is usually met with more negative appraisal and the spiral continues until they pick up a learning disorder like ADHD or ADD that now at least protects them somewhat to where they were going emotionally.

Its why ADHD etc are the mental illnesses that first show up in young children at this age. The reason for the increase in ADHD is because these days there is so much more a child need to understand as life is changing rapidly with the parents who they are dependant on having less time to teach there children properly and be there for them emotionally. Also with a faster paced lifestyles of people these days they are also less able to handle there own stresses and be the parent they need to be at times and not able to notice when there child is in distress and need help. Some parents are focused on providing as its a necessity for survival and an increase breakdown of the family unit all placing pressure at the end on the children that might be facing there own problems.

The reason why drugs like aderoll and dex amphetimines helps with a child with ADHD etc is that it helps with attension span. People in general can use these drugs to give there brain an advantage and think for long periods of time with out getting tired. Adult who use these drugs do have adverse side effects and can affect other parts of them emotionally.

There is no known cause of ADHD etc, or cure but im pretty sure it works like this with in children. My own child seemed to have it at an early age and was able to get out of it by basically sticking to encouragement and praising with extra work as a parent to teach him properly things and being there for him emotionally and listening to what he was trying to tell me. It required spending more time and focus on him that was certainly worth it and noticed by my child.

 

 

FIXING A MENTAL ILLNESS

rrrrThis is how to fix a mental illness. Im not saying its possible to achieve the end goal. I think it is possible  to see the way to actually fix any disorder that exists though.  There are a lot of variable that need to be defined in a new way to even get an understanding of how to fix a mental illness.

The two most important concepts are emotions and thoughts. When you have a thought in your head you get a feeling inside. This is your emotions telling you if the thought you had is good or bad for you. If the feeling is good you get a strengthening of your emotions and a bad feeling will weaken your emotions. People who are strong emotionally are characterised with a life where they have had there thoughts being mostly positive. A good life from an early age develops a person emotions to be strong and able to handle occasional negative thoughts. On the flip side someone weak emotionally will be characterised with a life of too many negative thoughts weakening them emotionally with occasional positive thoughts providing relief from there suffering of feeling weak emotionally.

Possibly it is best explained by your childhood. Lets say that is from the age of 0 to 18years old. I had a good child hood. Im 44 now and every thought of my life as a child is a good thought. Sure there were moments or things that happened that would of effected me negatively but are so out weighed by the positive that its impossible for me remember them as bad times and only have good feelings of my childhood. Now put all these positive thoughts over my life time against a child who had a violent upbringing for example. Remembering things like laying in your bed scared out of your brain un able to sleep or even make sense of it all as the thoughts you have when your mind thinks about your past will be a constant negative feel you will have inside emotionally making you feel weak emotionally.

While your awake your brain is constantly thinking about something on some level. It would be millions of thoughts. I estimate up until the age of 42 my brain would of had 10 million positive thoughts versus half a million negative thoughts and I was very strong emotionally and basically never had a bad day in my life. Those negative thoughts were nothing super intense and I was way to strong emotionally for them to be an issue anyway. Reverse that equation with a child from a violent upbringing and magnify those negative thoughts with a 100 time magnitude and feel how a person emotions would of taken such a beating negatively that you would be emotionally so weak that allows for some type of mental illness or many to be encountered. Emotionally strong people don’t get mental illnesses, its only for people who have had negative thoughts on a level that weakened emotions to a certain level that a disorder presented itself as a way of protecting them against there own mind destroying themselves emotionally. Children who had violent upbringings often have various mental illness like ADHD, depression, anxiety and schitizophrenia amongst others. Simply put a human is not able to emotionally go through adversity as a child and develop strong emotions due to having negative thoughts of there life constantly making them emotionally weak. Emotions simply do not work like that. You go through something bad and it effects your emotions and that’s just how they work.

It doesn’t have to be something as serious as violence. Something as simple as a parent not being encouraging enough or a bit negative will cause an emotions in a child to be exposed constantly to something negative and making them weaker emotionally. Weaker emotions can spiral downward with constant negative thoughts they are easily had when there are negative things to think about of the past. A person may even be able to remember a childhood they didn’t enjoy and cant see that anything even bad happened to them in there childhood. Maybe they had depression from an early age and cant even know why. But the answer is simple always. For some reason your mind had negative thoughts on a level that made you emotionally weak to the point where you took on emotionally depression disorder. Now its hard not to have negative thoughts as the depression has these thoughts for you weather you like it or not and turning this around might be or seem like mission impossible.

But over the last little while due to a bit of bad luck you could say, i’ve had more negative thoughts about issues that my brain is not able to cope as there are a lot of negatives and emotionally I am getting weaker. Every negative thought im aware of and spend most of my days now trying to distract myself with things that don’t allow me to just think about all the negativity that im going through. Its nothing I can control and just put out of my mind, its just something i’ve got to go through and hope I get through it.

Without going into the whole long story, I was basically diagnosed with a delusion disorder where I believed my ex-partner is a malignant narcissist. You could say that there not the nicest thing to have a relationship with and can make up things that other people including psychiatrist believe and you end up on anti-psychotic medication that is compulsory and has a side effect of servere anxiety that gives you constant negative thoughts and worries in life where I have to literally try to spend most of my time distracting myself from negative thoughts, mainly about the medication that is hurting me emotionally so much.   Going from being strong emotionally straight into anxiety disorder is a hard jump to have to go through. Im having all these negative thoughts and worry’s about this ridiculous situation I find myself in instead of being able to go through the normal thought processes of my real life drama’s that I would of been able to cope with as I was strong enough emotionally.

Im able to feel this weakening of myself emotionally and basically have got to hang on and not get to emotionally weak before I get off this medication and able to repair myself emotionally. But its made me aware of how emotions work and I think they work the same for everyone.

But this is the key or the theorem in how to fix a mental illness.  For those with some sort of disorder are you able to somehow be able to stop your mind having thoughts that weaken your emotions and turn it all around and get strong emotionally. Im not sure how possible that is when you got some type of disorder in a way doing the negative thinking for you on top of being emotionally weak and a past that has your mind remembering bad times is not a way to get emotionally strong.

I guess I see a fairy tale type solution of being able to fix a mental illness of developing some sort of life style that has a positive direction and so interesting that your distracted from whatever mental illness on such a scale that doesn’t allow for your mental illness to do the thinking for you or for you to remember  things in the past that hurt you emotionally and get constant new positive thoughts from a lifestyle that some how miraculessly comes around that is of constant excitement and positivity while being able to un confuse your mind that has all these built up thoughts and remember such bad times that are impossible to forget as the overall theory to how you fix a mental illness or a disorder.  Not saying its possible but I guess anything along these lines is the way to at least feel better. For me its hang on to my hat time and try not to fall to hard.  Writing is a distraction for me and allows for me to think clearly and a break from the negative thoughts that is my new life that im desperately trying to avoid.

 

ADHD IS INCREASING FAST

For a minute, just pretend your 2 yrs old, yep pretend your still pooping your pants…. Your not just learning what your parents are teaching you, you developing everything,your looking at stuff you have never seen before, your eating things you never tasted before, you smelling, hearing and there is stuff going on and around you and your little brain just takes a bit in from everything..

A simple trip to the local store will be an adventure for a 2 yr old…you might start off walking, holding mums hand, you see bus, car, car, truck, horn, tree, train go past, other kids, people talking, a dog, mums pointing out things so you learn words, few little road rules hear and there, careful of the doggy, look a flower, another bus goes past and your now saying baa, baa.

You worked out that if you see this big looking thing on the road and say baa, baa, mum thinks you great and gives you a cuddle. Walking along the footpath and your 2 yr old, you going to do all sorts of near accident things.. Your hearing careful, hurry up, don’t touch the dog, get your hand out of your mouth, . All simple little words of advice from your mum and you just taking little bits in as you can I guess….

Life more complex these days, and there is more to learn and less time to do it. People are more careful as well and don’t think as much for them selvers either these days. You go to kindy earlier, and by the time you hit 3yr old that 50 trips to the shops is not go to do the same job as the 300 or so you would of had 40 years ago. There was no kindy back then, there was only one car and that was at work with your dad

You had all day with your mum to cruise through and discover things at your own pace.. So what if a dog was cruising past, most people had one any way. You had a longer leash to discover and families where much tighter, More kids to play with and life had much more flow for a little child… There was “less don’t do this don’t do that”, there was more go play with billy and you learn things so much better from experience..
Im sure my dad knew exactly what he was doing when I stacked my bike a few times and lost the skin off my knees.. He was Australian road champion. It was the highlight of my 4 yr olds getting mended and back out with the other kids, and it was on the road at the end of the street. I knew those road rules by the age of 5 and was normal to be in the outdoors playing all the time. No computers or anything back then..

We lived near the beach and I was swimming day one of kindy 4 1/2, no swimming lessons, by 7 I was riding to the beach with the older kids, and they knew how to save you if you got into trouble… You played sport on the weekends, you played sport at home, you played till you dropped everyday and then you ate your dinner, if you liked it or not, it was all just too easy.. Shut you fingers in the draw, who cares, you only do it once and you work it out..

The point im trying to make is that life has changed and and these disorders like ADHD are multiplying.. but there is less time to learn things and more that needs to be learnt. Kids brains have not changed… Evolution takes millions of years.

There is no clue out there to what even causes ADHD and the like..A child’s brain learns a lot of things step by step, where if there are steps missed, then the brain simply wont be able to think about something it has never learned before, Young children are still developing emotionally, they can loose confidence in there ability to even think and ability to solve life’s little puzzles. They can loose attension span and fall behind, loose friends if they cant play properly, You can fall behind and no one is there to pick you up….A young child can be annoying and easily frustrated when he can’t do something right, Then we become frustrated and shorter with how we teach em, instead of the other way around..
This is a disorder, and people have got to live there lives like this. They don’t know the cause of it and there is no cure and its multiplying rapidily. It can be fixed though. My boy had it before the age of four, so I worked less and went back to basics. We grabbed the dog and went bush and explored. Out in the bush along the river there is time to think and talk. There was no phone to interupt and out there there is no wrong or stop, don’t do this… its all just fun and the ADHD was gone in weeks.

Lives are changing so fast, ADHD is increasing fast to, but little boys are still the same as they were 50 or 5000 years ago like our knowledge of this disorder

ADHD, ADD CAUSE AND RECOVERY

 

 

Research and findings

 

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE, This is not easy to understand…..click for more info, and will do some video blogs … in the next day..

 

In short this is about ADD and ADHD. How its caused and How you can fix it……… OMG this guy must be crazy, put him in a psych ward(please don’t I have been in one already). Basically you can only understand what your brain is capable of and just being one of the first to read, you will be technically , one of the worlds most expert people on Disorders… So have a read, re-read, its confirmed already but by who???? This stuff is kinda easy to understand depending on what is already set in your mind on the causes of ADD and ADHD, Yes I know how to fix ADHD and similar, anxiety, depression and depending on the person more. They are the easiest and it feels more like fun to deal with a parent rather than a disorder..

 

MENTAL DISORDERS ARE HARD TO UNDERSTAND(you must try with this one)

 

It’s a simple topic if you can wipe away all your other knowledge of ADD … You might as well, it doesn’t do you any good, forget there is no cure, there is not even certainty how you get it, so you can think and talk about what’s in the past and will be the same result… And that may be you don’t have ADD, maybe a child you know has it…. I will give a basic outline of a kind of pathway that might serve you well…. And then some deeper knowledge, maybe some proof and maybe you feel you have some thoughts to add or some things are starting to make sense..
Don’t assume you an read an article and have knowledge with this sort of stuff… Disorders act in a certain way, but not logical and can take a bit to think correctly..,
There is a good reasons psychs, and psychologist work in an industry where they have no training on what we rely on them for…Only people with mental illness know there is no fixes for any mental illness, no pathway, no direction… Its harsh, but it is the case…

 

BRIEFLY WHO AM I(Neil from syd, AUSTRALIA)

ABOUT ME, there is a reason why I accidently worked out the mind

I will leave it to the reader to judge, all I can encourage is that if you have a disorder you will know how tough life is. If you have or your child has a disorder, its something that has come up and if you knew how bad they were, you might of given mental health you full attension along time ago., don’t leave any stone unturned… There are little clues with these little disorders and just need a learn a few things, get a bit of confidence, start to think a bit and (hold the Farken phone), that pretty much how you fix these little disorders….”NO FARKEN way”
Im have no psych background, ive fixed my own child twice, and some anxiety, depression and some higher forms of depression, I know about disorders at the bad end of town and work with women who have ADHD and up to ten others… Leave some feed back on level of understandability, It very frustrating to see something so important as clear as I do, but that after a lot of lot of effort.. Maybe like your child, he just didn’t understand somethings

OMG—THIS IS HURTING A LOT OF KIDS, AND NOBODY HAS ANY IDEAS…
WHY?????? AND ITS GETTING MORE AND MORE COMMON

NATHAN- my big boy

40 years ago life was different, no computers, 1 family income and we played until we were called for dinner. .. 100 year ago there wasn’t even cars……
Humans are still born the same as a million year ago…. So that rules out a lot of things… But there is a reason that despite being able to read DNA and fore sure being able to capture in a picture anything that exist . That no one can get that picture of mental illness of show any proof of all these crazy thoughts where it comes from………….. Also there looks to be a child is great suffering here.. All mental illness the only thing certain is that some come from our environment that we live in… But it all does, anything else is impossible, we can’t catch it and there aint any DNA on nothing… All disorders and mental state will go back to life experienced and when you get in deep to how disorders work, they may not be hurting you as much as you think..
ADD and ADHD are obvious disorder that occur with a break down in confidence and thought ….
Mental means mental… don’t kick the dog and say he caught the scared of a boot disorder ..

 

HOW DOES A CHILDS BRAIN WORK (in general) INTRO

 

I assume this is known………Brains start with no knowledge and is our learning and solving. Probably originally so we can survive… Its what it usually is all about… A kid builds up a base of knowledge through experiencing things in life and watching others, and mostly you… And what is taught…
Learning a lot of things is very step by step.. Where the brain builds up a level of knowledge before learning the next thing….
When we go through this extreme stage of learning where everything is new, and we start thinking for ourselves ends just before we begin our memories from.. But just imagine not being able to go a minute without seeing something, a colour, a letter some object and you just a learning sponge.
You will begin to start processing the information as it begins to make sense but you don’t know what your doing and you wont know why your brain start to calculate.. You will have these feeling that indicate if something is good, but you need help in how to think.. encouragement, going through the steps and not to be learning anything that doesn’t make sense.. Your brain is just starting to think and you need encouragement and easy steps to start feeing how you are able to think for yourself and you say an answer, and then mum gives you a hug and another question and another answer, and its fun and you get better at thinking, and more automatic with your brain this period as well is basically a new process to work out every little thing… You say car and it’s a van, to a kid, you nearly want to respond and say, you know what I meant, but he just that he worked out the hardest thing in life, and it felt grate for him and he is thinking about a bus now and is deep in thought and basically developing attention span.
If something comes through and interrupts this or stops the thought or you cant process because you missed some steps, and you get a few to many NO’s, you sitting there with a pile of things you have missed out on, you don’t have the foggiest, and you just learn the best you can, .. The confidence in how to solve and how to turn on the brain is the first to go… It goes fast in there changing environment and all this learning an progression of the mind is now stuck and you cant process, you doing things wrong, other kids are thinking and your chasing after them, there all getting encouraged and you seem to be doing the wrong thing and you try so hard, but you quickly slip away and .. levels and confidence can only go so low, before the mind cuts in and puts a set low down to protect it self and its time to repair or things just aren’t going to work…

 

Understand how disorders work.
This is crucial, what you have here is a boy and a disorder, the disorder acts in these set ways, and if you trying to battle a disorder, I can tell you now, there not able to be beaten like that.. you will make it worse. Possibly if your looking for deep understanding, they actually do have a purpose and they can only be established when a certain low is maintained for a period of time without emotional repair and a change into the way we think.. Understand the disorder and its pain and what comes next, and you might feel, that its easier to fix this than live with it, no matter how hard it might be

RECOVERY OUT OF MENTAL ILLNESSRAMBLE ON RECOVERY

GET READY AND I MEAN BIG READY, UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE DOING
YOU WILL BE REPAIRING A CHILDS MENTAL STATE AND TEACHING THEM CONFIDENCE AND HOW TO THINK AND THAT ITS TIME TO HAVE SOME FUN AND OUT OF MENTAL ILLNESS
DISORDER, ARE SEPARATE FROM THE CHILD AND AND MAP OUT THE RECOVERY.. UNDERSTAND THE TIME FRAME, YOUR CAPABILITIES, THERE WHOLE ENVIROMENT AND THAT A DISORDER DOES NEED A BIT OF EXTRA FORCE TO BUDGE IT, BUT ITS JUST A MATTER OF BEING ABLE TO FOCUS AND BRING ALONG THE KID …
Click on the link and its me rambling about what ever comes to my head….

 

I do try very hard, to make it understandable…. If you see any thing that needs explaining I WANT TO KNOW

Ideas on cause of ADHD

Could ADHD be as simple as this??
ADHD is a mental disorder that is very common and increasing at such an increasing rate it’s a bit of worry. If you talk to some people, it’s the doctors just diagnosing and putting the kids on drugs for no reason. But if you talk to the people with kids who have the disorder, it’s a lot more serious than that.

Looking at how lives are changing might be a logical reason why ADHD and similar mental disorders are increasing. You only have to go back a couple of generations and life was completely different. There was not this life style of both parents working to try and buy a house and support a family. There was a lot more time to spend with the kids.

Go back another couple of generations there was not even cars and trucks, buses and trains, all of which are the favourite toys of little boys… One of the first things a young boy is able to work out in there brain and yell out when they go past is CAR or they see a train and there little brain clicks into gear and yells out TRAIN and for a mum or dad its so funny, but your also so proud at the the same time..

The brain for a human is like our big advantage over other animals, we can learn on such a higher level to solve all of life’s little solutions, but its still the same brain from one hundred years or so, but the world has changed at a rapid rate. No one has ever thought that we need to change how kids may learn to keep up with these changing times.

Your brain can only learn as a child in a step by step way… I like maths and will try to explain what I mean by step by step… after many steps a child may be at the stage of trying to compute simple addition.. If steps have been missed and he is not ready and doesn’t know numbers are quite yet and its all a bit hazy to them, there brain just will not work in these situations, there will not be any thought even and it will be a shut down of there brain or just to think of something that there capable of.. It might be also that there brain has missed steps in how to switch on and start thinking and this is all happening at an extremely fast pace around the 2,3 and 4 year old age….

Kids are looking for love and praise and trying to do there best and can be really frustrating for them if there not keeping up and loose confidence and there brain can loose its way. Possibly disorders can start and psychologist, psychologists don’t know anything about this kind of thing, People are to busy to notice and its to late before you realize there is something really wrong. Ithink its possible that its something as simple as this as a start to where ADHD and similar disorders come from where there are no solution or reasons to why they come about